Pleasure Point: Global Intimate Lifestyle Sex Toy Store
Founded in 2015 and curated by sex educator Zoë Ligon alien fleshlight, Spectrum Boutique has a no-nonsense approach to sexuality and avoids gendering products, instead encouraging everyone to buy what suits them best. The site also offers an entire section full of guides on how to use toys, along with educational guides on vulvas, penises, and butts so you can feel empowered in using your purchases. If you’re all about aesthetics, then ZALO is the place for you, bb. These toys are pricey, but they’re well worth the investment, trust. Designed for the women who find it really hard to come with the regular sex toys, the clitoralmassagers can be a great choice.
No veiny, realistic dildos here—just the Pogo and Gemini, two simple standouts. While the silicone Pogo has a suction cup on the bottom (for sticking to the tub or shower wall, perhaps?), the glass Gemini was made for temperature play. But deciding which site to buy from can be overwhelming, especially if you’re new to sex toys. To make it easier, I put together this list of sex toy sellers that have earned my trust over my 10-plus years of experience reviewing toys and lubes for SELF.
If you like your encounters on the sweeter side, try some edible massage oil. Tickle each other’s fancies with a feather crop, or form a lasting bond with Clone-A-Willy and Clone-A-Pussy kits. The possibilities are endless when you shop for the perfect couples sex toy with us.
This vibe delivers a unique fluttering sensation, and most people find the curved shape easy to hold. You can also use this toy as a “regular” vibrator on your partner’s other erogenous zones, or hold it with your hands and penetrate your partner, suggests DeSeta. This might look like the latest alien accessory, but we can confirm the LELO DOT is just an out-of-this-world plaything. That’s due to the elliptical-style vibrations (like a figure of eight) and pinpoint shape that makes precision the aim of the game. With a team of sex writers sitting on standby, we set them to work.
There’s a huge range of insertable vibrators and sex toys that target this zone, including dual-stimulation ones (like rabbit vibrators), curved toys, and models with bulbous heads that pulse or thrust. “Masturbation allows you to lean into pleasure—what makes you orgasm , what your body responds to — and this will enhance partner sex too,” Zar adds. Glass sex toys are perfect if you’re trying to avoid chemical smells or rough textures. Glass also holds temperatures well if you want to play with a little heat or ice. The design of this one incorporates bumps for extra anal or vaginal stimulation.
This double-ended dildo offers seriously strong G-spot stimulation. “A wearable couple’s toy is also a great option for those who want to experience hands-free stimulation during penetrative sex. These types of toys sit on the clitoris as well as inside the vagina for G-spot stimulation,” Howard says. And not only does it feel good for the wearer, but the penetrating partner can also feel the vibrating sensations, she adds.